The self-pleasuring technique you are about to discover aims to reproduce the practice of shallow thrusting for the purpose of enjoying prolonged self-pleasuring. In shallow thrusting the penis head works the entrance to the vagina with ideally the ridge (where the head begins) gently and rhythmically catching just inside the vagina entrance. This activity massages the penis just below the ridge and that is the area which the technique, you are about to discover, focuses.
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Additional support for the validity of this technique comes from the fact that the basic thrusting pattern suggested in literature on Chinese 'bedroom-arts' is one deep thrust followed by nine shallow. Practitioners were known to be able to prolong intercourse without ejaculation and satisfy several partners in the course of a 'night's work'!
So let's get started. It is assumed you have reached the point at which you have an erect penis and you are approaching a level of arousal at which control may be lost and unwanted ejaculation occur. The area to focus on is that immediately below the ridge where the penis head commences. You will find that working this area still produces highly pleasurable sensations while at the same time considerably reducing the urge to climax and ejaculate.
Method 1. Moderate level of arousal
1) Encircle the penis head just below the ridge using the thumb and first finger.2) You can adjust the tightness of the grip by altering the position of the first finger on the thumb. If the foreskin is in the way roll it back and then apply the grip.
3) The grip needs to be sufficiently tight so as not to move up over the ridge.
4) The remaining fingers can be wrapped around the penis shaft or held out away from the penis - whatever suits.
5) Once the grip is in position you can continue to stimulate yourself.
Method 2. High level of arousal
This is a variation on the above method that can be used when highly aroused.
1) Encircle the penis just below the ridge as in Method 1 then make the following adjustments:
2) Break the circle by keeping the first finger around the underside of the penis just below the ridge to provide support but bending the thumb so that the end of the thumb presses directly down into the area on the topside of the penis just below the ridge.
3) The pressure needs to be sufficient to prevent the grip moving up over the ridge.
4) The remaining fingers can be wrapped around the penis shaft or held out away from the penis - whatever suits.
5) Once the grip is in position you can continue to stimulate yourself.
Notes:
1) Don't wait until the very last moment to adopt either of the above techniques as you may reach a state of arousal in which ejaculation is unstoppable.
2) Practice may not make perfect but it certainly helps.
3) Commence self-pleasuring by stimulating the whole of the penis, that is, the shaft and the head area. As arousal builds up, move into a pattern of alternating between the shaft and the area just below the ridge (as described in the above methods). Initially try a pattern of alternating between 5 shaft (equivalent to deep vaginal thrusts) followed by 5 ridge area (equivalent to shallow vaginal thrusts). If level of arousal continues to rise move progressively to one shaft followed by nine ridge area.
4) If this strategy doesn't sufficiently control the level of arousal you may need to slow down the rate of stimulation or even stop stimulating for a brief period until the level subsides.
Although the techniques described above can be effective in controlling the level of arousal they are not the complete answer to enjoying 'endless' masturbation without ejaculation. There are two other techniques - one of which uses the generation and movement of sexual energy and the other I call the "seesaw". Each is very powerful in its own right but when they are used in combination with the thumb technique provide great control over ejaculation to the extent that you can enjoy intercourse (or masturbation) virtually for as long as you choose.
In addition, you can enjoy all the potential benefits of healthy, creative masturbation. These benefits can include direct rejuvenation your vital organs giving rise to energy boost, stress reduction, supercharged vitality and much more. Now you can feel really alive and energised and ready for more sex, even after ejaculating... no more post-ejaculation droop, no more tiredness!
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